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I go out a few times a week with some friends. Meeting women in bars has never proven to be an effective strategy for me. Bars have loud music, seductive ambiance, alcohol as a social lubricant, and beautiful women. Bars can be a great place to mingle, but too many factors are working against you for it to be the most effective place to make a real connection.
Some flirting happens non verbally. A coy glance here, a double take there, a subtle uncrossing of the legs. Our words and our ability to communicate.
Unfortunately in most bars, the high volume of music and chatter makes understanding the object of your desire difficult. So you talk louder and try to make yourself easier to understand and what could come off as flirting looks a little too much like yelling to be cute or sexy. The competition is too high.
No matter how good your intentions, or how nice you are there's a great chance your introduction simply won't land. Women get approached and hit on in bars constantly. I get it, guys think it's a good place meet women. But for the most part, ladies getting together in bars are there to do just that. Get together with friends, have a few drinks, and catch up. After the first few lame pickup attempts, the walls go up. Doesn't matter how nice and well intentioned you are, you're going to get more cold shoulders.
The gal who might have been extra flirty last night might not feel the same way after she's sobered up. Sad, but true. Get out of bars and go talk to people in real life. Your odds of making real connections will go up astronomically. Need some concrete examples of exactly how to start conversations? Watch these two video sand read the blog post below:.
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Shaun Galanos is a love coach and he teaches communication and intimacy tools for better relationships and more love. Dear Love Drive.
What am I doing wrong? Bold Enough To Share? Shaun Galanos Shaun Galanos is a love coach and he teaches communication and intimacy tools for better relationships and more love.Meeting girls at a bar
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The Do’s and Don’ts of Approaching a Girl at a Bar (From Her)