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For a man it is at 35 and after. This is a reason for proper age difference. Marriage is a beautiful and sacred institution. But it is marred by the wrong selection of partners, exaggerated expectations between spouses, adjustment problems, low tolerance levels and the failure to understand limitations of marriage.
Choosing a suitable partner is the key to marital bliss. In the partner, a woman looks for capability, handsomeness, financial stability, status, virtues, health and absence of vices. A man looks for beauty, complexion, age, height, physical and mental health, education, caste, religion and family background. Some say love marriages are better because partners have opportunities to know each other.
In arranged marriages, elders decide without giving couples time to know each other. It is not true that love marriages are always successful because during courting partners present the best of their personalities. As per law, the age at marriage for a woman is 18 and man 21 years. In the past, the relationship between wife and husband was that of God — devotee or master — servant in mainly a male-dominated society.
The age gap was never reckoned as long as the man was older and had better education and earning capabilities. Good education, decent job, financial independence, good physical and mental health and emotional involvement trump the age gap. Age difference in marriage Women mature two to three years earlier than men as also they reach menopause earlier. The boy is expected to be older than the girl. This has traditional acceptance and scientific bearing. The age gap does not matter when there is mental maturity, love, understanding and compatibility. Different age gaps work differently for different couples.
There cannot be a single rule. In wide age-gap marriages, the reality will hit hard after some time and the initial love spark may fade. Such marriages tend to split faster. Traditionally, sastras treatises say man has to marry younger woman, who is physically and mentally healthy.
Culture and traditions also stress on the wife being younger. In the old, the age gap could be 10 to 15 years. Because of the complete acceptance and devotion of the wife, such marriages almost always worked well. In those days, procreation and continuation of progeny was the main issue. We still find our parents, aunts and uncles having a wide age gap but are compatible. These days most boys and girls tend to marry their own friends, mostly of the same age.
Studies infer that if they marry the same age girl or boy, egos and dislikes clash; though of same age, their mental maturity and attitudes vary. Girls and boys have more opportunities to mingle and many times go abroad together. They have the time to understand each other and have the scope for selecting a partner with similar background, likes and dislikes.
Here only love, affection and compatibility matter, not the age. Girl can be younger or older than the boy. Studies show that the year age gap provides the most stable relationship. Gaps more than 8 to 10 years show higher disillusionment, quarrels and disturbed interpersonal relationships, leading to separation and divorce Bigger age gaps might have worked well for some, but cannot generalise.
Society frowns on more than year gaps in relationships. Reality kicks in as time passes; practical and realistic aspects become important as fantasy fades. Reproductive aspects of age difference Girls mature two to three years earlier than boys. They mature at 10 to 14 years of age. Boys mature at 12 to 16 years. In olden days of early marriages, the norm was the boy older than the girl. A woman attains menopause around years. Her fertility potential or reproductive capability is best between years.
Later the capability decreases and eggs in the ovary start reducing. For a man the sexual desire and activity peak at 35 and after. This is another reason for proper age difference. If he marries a very young girl, the sexual incompatibility becomes obvious. Sexual dysfunctions like decreased libido, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and dyspareunia painful intercourse in women, can lead to disturbed interpersonal relationships, infertility and separation. Treatments are available for sexual dysfunction.
A year-old girl marrying a year-old man or a year-old man marrying a year-old woman is potentially problematic. Biologically, sexually and reproductive health-wise short gap up to four to five years, where the girl is younger, works well. If there is compatibility, love and affection, age may not matter for some. Example: A man of 40 can date a girl of 27 years-plus, not younger because it is considered taboo.
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